The Magic Jar

MagicJar011 The Magic JarI am really starting to wonder why it is called the “terrible twos” and not the “terrible threes”.  I don’t remember the twos being so bad at all.  But the threes…the threes are a bit challenging.

I have seen the idea of a “calming jar” floating around on Pinterest forever, but never really thought it would work for us.  I had everything I needed in the house already so I figured it was worth a try.  The first few times I tried using it, let’s just say that she was not impressed.  But she warmed up to it, and now even requests her “magic jar”.

Her explanation of the jar is so perfect, far better than anything I could come up with:  ”When I’m mad or sad I just shake the jar and watch the magic float to the bottom.  And when the magic floats to the bottom then I’m not mad or sad anymore.”

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Supplies needed:

  • a jar
  • glitter
  • water
  • glycerin

Directions:

1.  Choose a jar.  If you think your child might throw or drop the jar, a plastic container like an empty peanut butter container might be a better idea.  I love my collection of vintage blue jars, so I used one of those.  I hope I don’t regret it.  ;)

2.  Fill the jar with water, leaving about an inch at the top empty.  Add 2 tablespoons of glycerin and 2 tablespoons of super fine glitter.  Put the lid on the jar and tighten well.

3.  Shake the jar until everything is blended.

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Your magic jar is ready to use.  Shake it gently and watch all the glitter float to the bottom.

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I had actually bought white glitter and glycerin because we were going to make snow globes before Christmas, but never got around to it.  I am loving how this turned out looking like a beautiful snow storm.  Perfect for this cold January we are having!

 

Corsage @ A Dollop Of Me - “I don’t remember the twos being so bad at all. But the threes…the threes are a bit challenging.” Am totally with you on this one!

Love your photos, by the way :)

julia [life on churchill] - I love this idea! I have a similar mason jar and two preschoolers who would love it. Has the glass held up okay?

Project Organize Your Entire Life

KidsCleaningKit Project Organize Your Entire LifeOne morning last year, I was flipping through my Google reader, skimming my favorite blogs, and a certain post caught my eye.  It was titled, How I Organized my Entire Life.  As I read through the post, I alternated between being really inspired, and maybe a little envious.  OK, lets just say it like it is.  I was jealous.  I actually started making a to-do list of things I needed to organize in my life.  And then I got to the end of the post.  I won’t ruin it for you if you haven’t seen it yet.  But I fell in love with Modern Parents Messy Kids that day.

I am so excited that my friend Stephanie, from Modern Parents Messy Kids, has written an ebook based on her awesome post.  It is full of great ideas to simplify and organize your life.  And it even features my cleaning kit for kids!

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Here’s what Stephanie has to say about what is in the book:

  • Step-by-Step action plans for conquering some of the biggest obstacles to living the simplified life you’re yearning for: decluttering, cleaning, organizing, meal planning and more.
  • Customizable strategies for it all. We’re of the belief that one size does NOT fit all. Which is why the quick start guide is full of resources for a variety of lifestyles, schedules, and personalities.
  • A built-in support network. Yeah, we know, a support system for organizing? Sounds a little over
    he top – but you’d be surprised how motivating a facebook group of over 3,500 fellow simplifiers can be.
  • No unattainable goals, only real-life expectations. If there’s one thing we’ve learned, it’s that simplifying and organizing is a journey, not a destination. So we’ve set up our quick start guide accordingly. By offering lots of different strategies for tackling a problem, we’re arming you with the tools you need to be successful when life changes on you.

This is the perfect way to start 2013, whether you are obsessed with organizing like me, or you need a little help in that area.  ;)

Click here to get your own copy of Project Organize Your Entire Life.

The best part? Get 15% off until Friday, 1/11/13, using the discount code “Kaley”.

A New Year Filled With Beautiful Mistakes

2013 A New Year Filled With Beautiful Mistakes

“I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes.

Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re Doing Something.

So that’s my wish for you, and all of us, and my wish for myself. Make New Mistakes. Make glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody’s ever made before. Don’t freeze, don’t stop, don’t worry that it isn’t good enough, or it isn’t perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work or family or life.  Whatever it is you’re scared of doing, Do it.

Make your mistakes, next year and forever.”

-Neil Gaiman

All day today I was thinking about what my New Years resolutions were going to be.  Some years I have lists and lists.  Some years I swear them off completely.  This year, I just want to make one resolution that I can actually stick with.  (You know, past January 7th.)

I read this post by Neil Gaiman a few months ago and haven’t been able to get it out of my head.  Make mistakes.  Some of you might think nothing of this.  But to me, this is big.  Huge.  I am a perfectionist.  A perfectionist of the worst kind.  I have hundreds (probably more) of blog post drafts ready to go, but I am afraid to hit publish.  I spend hours (hours!) editing just one image.  I have tons of projects started, but not finished.  Because I worry that they aren’t good enough.  That I am not good enough.  Because in my head, I will do these things when I can do them perfectly.  So they never get done.

So this year, I will try, I will make mistakes, I will Do Something.  And I will share it with you all here.  I do hope that you will join me.

Here’s to a 2013 filled with beautiful mistakes!

Rachel - I feel the exact same way sometimes. I hope you will publish some of those blog posts and post some of those images. :) Happy New Year!

kati - right there with you :) happy new year! here’s to just hitting “publish” :) xo

Janssen - What a great goal – I could really stand to focus on this. And of course, Neil Gaiman is a man of great wisdom almost always.

Stephanie - I was really inspired by your post. First of all, your photography and post content are always wonderful. As a perfectionist myself, I can totally relate to not feeling good enough and feeling like others will judge my work harshly. I am happy to know that I’m not the only one. I want to make similar goals so I can enjoy life more and progress in my creativity too.

DIY No-Slip Socks

Happy Christmas Eve!  Hopefully your Christmas shopping is done, and you are just relaxing today.  If not, or even if you are done but still want a super easy, super cheap, last minute stocking stuffer, you are going to love this!

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It has been pretty cold in San Francisco lately, and we have all hard wood floors in our apartment.  Sock weather + wood floors = a lot of slipping and sliding.  A $2 bottle of puffy paint and 5 minutes of my time took care of that problem.  And yes, it is the same puffy paint that we rocked on our sweatshirts in the 80′s.  They still make it!  :)

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It really is as easy as making a few easy designs on the bottom of your kid’s socks, and letting it dry overnight.  But if you would like the full details, it is all over on HelloBee.

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Alli (You have your blog, we have Aars) - These are ADORABLE! Love them!